One of my old clients is a certified IELTS examiner and he worked in Hanoi. He was a wonderful, gallant, open-minded man and we shared the same interest in checking out spas and having a full body massages. He came to me to learn how to become better at making women happy. He was not a millionaire although he was definitely a successful English teacher and highly sought after by different schools in Vietnam. He was one of my very first Sheila’s massage students. He bought a 3 Sheila’s massage training sessions and a nuru. What he took away from the course was not only the skill but also newly gained tremendous confidence in himself and ability. You can find his feedback under the nickname FOXY on my website. He was very eager to follow my advice: “PRACTICE makes perfect,” after we finished the training. He started to swipe on Tinder and gave his matches massages. They got hooked on these and since women he met had rarely or never had an erotic massage before, he left an overwhelming impression on them and lots of them wanted casual encounters to be exclusive. I then acted as his “date doctor” to help him to let these women go easy without hurting them. In a way, he became his own victim in performing such a great massage that every woman he mets wanted him only for themselves. The “side effect” of Sheila’s foreplay routine is that it can be addictive. Once women have experienced a full routine, they might demand it again the next time they have sex. Therefore I started to give out instructions to my students that if they just wanted to have great sex, they should use only the teasing part and might skip the whole body kissing pattern. From the students’ feedback, all women were ready and just wanted the men to be inside them half way into the massage without having to employ the kissing technique. So they tended to forget the rest of the routine since there was no need to use it all, but also the routine is roughly at least 45 minutes long. Anyway, after becoming his friend for a while, he told me stories of a part-time hooker and an English teacher in Hanoi. She wanted to buy a house and the fastest way to make money is through prostitution. She didn’t believe in men and their promises; she needed security , which is a house earned with her own money. She had a long list of “taboo things” she wouldn’t do. I don’t know how long she had been doing it, but during her years of work, she was made two hard-to-resist offers. One client offered her $10,000, and asked her to marry him, move to his country and of course quit her job. She declined it flatly. That sounded like an unfair trade and there was no freedom in that. The second client tripled the money offer with only one condition that she had to quit her job and study higher to make a decent living. She did walk away with the money and got her master degree in education from an international reputable university located in Vietnam and became a university lecturer. I have never met such generous people, but after all, I only provided a sensual service and showed them how to enjoy better sex as well as learned how to control their orgasm and possibly have multiple orgasm. I was, however, offered anywhere from $500 to $3500 to spend the night with clients. That was a lot of money compared to a single massage or a single package on the menu, but once you have gone down that road, you cannot undo what you have done and no matter how discreet and careful you are, the word would be out. I could not cross the line and nor bear the thought of having sex for money or being labelled as a hooker cum masseuse. Sex should be voluntary and fun not forced or should be done as a duty, a chore or for any other purposes than pleasure. Even if your sole purpose is for reproduction, pleasure should not be dismissed. Together with specific figures offered, some of them even hinted at a luxurious lifestyle with a few million dollars if I were to become their girlfriend and have children with them. Each kid was estimated at $2000000. One of such hints was dropped by an Australian property developers that came to Vietnam for a conference. He stayed in Park Hyatt in one of the rooms with a small garden looking out the swimming pool and that was the only time I went to Park Hyatt to teach foreplay. (I had another client staying in Park Hyatt also but he didn’t want any session there since he didn’t want his colleagues to find out he took lessons from a local- it was hard to explain to someone). I cannot remember his age but he was probably older than 70. He agreed to buy the highest package at that time which included 3 foreplay training sessions and a nuru. He told me he was single and actively looking for a girlfriend. He gave 20 mil dollars to his ex-wife as alimony and 2 mil dollars to his ex-girlfriend to help them raise his children. He laid everything out there on the table if I was to agree to become his girlfriend. I don’t date clients and certainly not while they are my clients. I also didn’t like the way he thought money could buy everything. We had our first foreplay session and it was quite difficult to make him follow the instructions; he deviated often and I had to warn him many times that I would walk if he didn’t want to learn since I didn’t get paid for people to touch me. I do enjoy being massages; that’s why I offered to be a model for free. There should have been a charge for it. After our first session, we realized our purposes did not align so we never saw each other again. Coincidentally, I ran into his photo at his business partner at the client’s house when I came to give him the royal package a few months later.
The second millionaire was also a property developer. He made a few bad decisions in business and was making a loss. He was upset and therefore it affected his ability to satisfy his wife- he suffered from mild, temporary ED; he also wanted to become a better lover, so he sought me out. He was a very respectable man and definitely a gentleman. He paid in 3 instalments and every time we finished our training, he made me a hot matcha, my favourite tea. He also paid more than the supposed instalment each time and asked me to keep the change. The tip he gave me would be around $100. I could see his problem was fixed after our second day into training and he had an intense orgasm after the final one. I felt happy since it was intended and I helped a man to gain his confidence back and be functional again.
The third millionaire was also a property developer. He was in his late 60s. His wife died of cancer after 16 years of suffering and being abusive to him and his son. So he was back to the dating pool. He was nervous and wanted to brush up on his skill. He was dating a Vietnamese girl in Canada and she was uptight; she wouldn’t do certain things for him in bed, and my foreplay technique was perfect for that. He was the only client that had 2 foreplay training sessions per day, one in the morning and one in the evening due to his super hectic schedule. It was only my first experience in Caravelle and also my first time to realise that parking a bike at Caravelle after 10 pm could cost 50,000 VND (since then I became more aware of parking rates at different five star hotels). So we met three times, morning, evening and morning again to finish a tailored package to fit in his schedule. After the session, I suddenly became his “dating doctor” in terms of how to recognise if she was into him just for money. We met again a few months later for a nuru, and we planned for the third one but he cancelled it since his meeting went longer than he had expected. At one point, he even considered sponsoring his friend to Canada and paid for her to take up a nuru course to work there.
The fourth millionaire had a pharmaceutical company making lab equipment and many beauty stores in his country. I didn’t know he was a millionaire until I saw the photo of his mansion. He didn’t mean to flaunt it; he just wanted to show how big his dogs were compared to his wife on a golf cart in front of their mansion. He was the only one that offered two nuru the same day, one in the morning and one in the evening. He and his wife, who is a pharmacist, had a very unusual agreement. She knew that her husband had sexual needs and it was impossible to keep the man satisfied in his wife’s absence, so they both agreed that as long as he wouldn’t bring any woman or disease home, she didn’t need to know what he did since ignorance is bliss. I had never consented to giving 2 nuru per day since it consumed too much physical and mental energy; also it takes time for clients to enjoy the effect of the massage and also build up new tension and stress for me to drain and for their money’s worth. This put me under some pressure to outperform myself. The second one had to surpass the first one; he was open to experiment the effect with me and it indeed exceeded his expectation. He later on asked me to work for him as an assistant, an interpreter and a masseuse to travel to different regions for a good salary. I contemplated the offer, it was tempting but the scenario of giving massages to only one client seemed a bit waste of my massage skills, so I quietly let the offer go cold.
The fifth client was from South America. He was also a property developer who was on hiatus for two weeks before embarking on a new project without vacations for months on end. Money was no object for him. I came to visit him at Silverland Sakura for the first foreplay session. He was supposed to have a three day training package but due to being pressed for time and there was so much to see in Vietnam, he checked out the next day to go to Da Nang.
In Vietnam it was a lot easier to run into millionaires than in the US since it was a case of “big fish in a small pond”. I have never had a billionaire as my client and I have never got to visit their estate in the countryside. They seem to be few and far between. Now that I am living in Wilmington, Vermont, it is even harder. I hope that day will come soon, ideally before I make a trip back to Vietnam to visit my family for one to two months in late May or early June 2022.