Throughout my career as a nuru masseuse and a teacher of touchy business, I have learned the following things
1 Anything can happen. You can always learn more. Every experience with a client is unique. Some never know that they have a foot fetish till they have received a great erotic foot massage. Others aren’t aware of their erogenous zone until after a nuru.
2 Human body is a universe itself and our body needs our attention. When we were born, we had very sensitive skin. As we grow up, we are exposed to pollution and we start to fall down and have injuries. We also have stress in some forms be it from work, family or social relations. All these factors prevent us from feeling subtle sensations. Once your body is opened up, you can feel it everywhere even its just a slightest touch; it’s the chill, the goose bumps, the electricity running through your body.
3 Different strokes for different folks. How to push yourself to the limit, the border of pain and pleasure? This can only be achieved through time spent getting to know clients’ body. People have different body shapes and sizes. Some feel more through the slides; other feels great when I am on their back. I sometimes have to adjust my technique to fit clients’ body type.
4 Multiple orgasm for men is real and it comes when you least try and when you learn how to let go. One of my clients told me; it dawned on him that the process is more important than the outcome and never associate an orgasm with ejaculation. You need to learn to appreciate quality over quantity. How to have a long orgasm and how to maintain that orgasm? How to have a passionate love making experience not how many times I have had sex and how many times I have climaxed this week?
4 It’s possible for men to cum without ejaculation through practicing qigong.
5 Men can squirt too. I totally know what I am talking about. In my entire career so far, I have seen only one man squirt, which was something even new to my client. I taught him something he had never known about himself before.
6 Men can ejaculate even though they are not hard.
7 When people want something badly enough, they will go for it even though it means they need to stay in a hotel for one night, leaving their hostel behind just for this wonderful nuru service.
8 Chemistry does exist. If you don’t see feel chemistry at first, it doesn’t mean that there is no chemistry. It is just hidden. You need to create situations for the people you date to shine, to react the way you prefer. Unless you have given it 5 times and it still doesn’t work, it’s time to move on. Basically, I believe in fixing the one I have than looking for a new one. I also believe in bringing out the best in people. If they don’t know it about themselves, you can show them.
9 Some of my clients have had nuru experiences in Thailand, Japan, England, Turkey, Hong Kong and China all come back and report my one is the best since I focus on the relaxation, the long lasting effect, and intensity of orgasm rather than sexual act. The above places try to cut it short with sexual activities. They don’t know you well and probably they have a few nuru per day. It’s just a job for them; you won’t feel any special or that your body is special and it deserves the right treatment