Although I have hundreds of students of more than 40 nationalities, I haven’t had many couples that come to me for consultation or training sessions. And when these couples had sessions with me, it was the man that talked the woman into this professional training. All these couples are mixed with oftentimes a Western man and an Asian woman or vice versa. Their age gap is also a common denominator, usually from 15 to 20 years apart. One of the recent experiences with a Bangladeshi couples, who really appreciated it after the sessions and even prepared a box of souvenirs made in Bangladesh for me, has inspired me to write this.
For newly-dating couples, everything is fresh and exciting and there are so many things to explore with their partners so they might not see the need to learn. However, this is a crucial stage to learn because if they do it right and properly from the beginning, they will have many years of intense pleasure to look forward to and at this point, people are willing to listen each other, to new ideas and adapt.
For long-term couples, it is hard for one partner to convince the other that the best still can be brought out in each other through Sheila’s Approach Massage Training. As a saying goes “Old habits die hard”, they might have already been used to kissing with open mouth or with lots of suction or certain positions and spontaneity. Now suddenly Sheila’s Approach Massage Training helps redefine love making experience and ask the man to work their muscles a bit, challenge their old ways of kissing and set the bar higher each time and sometimes undo what they have learned over the years.
The biggest hindrance for couples to have this training is probably the woman. Most Asian women are not comfortable with being naked in front of their man let alone another woman. Several Asian women dim the light or turn off the light when they make love to their partners because they feel insecure about their body not to mention having another woman work on them while they are in their birthday suit. Once they get over this thought, it is plain sailing.
The second one is probably the cost. Typically, couples can have a few choices ranging from 3 sessions to 7 or more depending on their needs. The package always start with the masseuse performing Sheila’s Approach Massage on the woman to see how she reacts to it and how it is supposed to feel. The second session involves the masseuse giving the man the same massage so the man can simulate how it is done on him and transfer it to their partner. The third session is to show the man step-by-step routine of massage and kissing- Sheila’s Approach Massage Training. Most couples are willing to pay for a single Sheila’s Approach Massage Training session to see how it works before committing to more but it doesn’t work that way. Reality proves that experiencing a Sheila’s Approach Massage can improve learners’ skill by 20-30%. Therefore, 3 sessions are the minimum they can start with. If there were few skills that people find useful for the rest of their life till they become physically inactive, one of them would probably be this Sheila’s Approach Massage. In that sense, this couple package fee is next to nothing.
If the couple buy from 5 sessions and above, I always let their partner stay in the room and watch when I give Sheila’s Approach Massage to the other. Some women feel safer with their partner by their side or they are simply inseparable. Sometimes the couple get really into it but it is predictable and expected and by then it is also the end of my Sheila’s Approach Massage Training session. So far, I can safely say that I have had everything under control.
Sheila’s Approach Massage covers the whole body including erogenous zones and alternates between purely massaging and teasing followed by kissing and positions. It is designed logically to flow smoothly without causing too much distraction. It takes into account different various body types and possible health levels. It offers advice on the ambience, the lighting, the sound and the scents.
If you need help to get it through your partner, you can always contact me at nurumasseuse@gmail.com or info@sheila-4playmassagetraining.com