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1. What is your favourite part of a man’s body?

I like men’s thighs especially if they are long, slim and lean. I am also attracted to men with some chest hair; I think it’s very manly. In addition, I have a thing for bald men; they usually look tough. 

2 .  Do you have any sexual fantasies?

       Yes, I like to be engaged in a threesome with two men. One would fondle my breasts and the other would eat me up. I want them to devour me, take turns to kiss me all over and slowly enter me then fuck my brain out. An orgy could be also considered with me the centre of attention and a bunch of guys wanting me. Another fantasy of mine is to role play. I like to dress up as a school girl to have nasty talk to the teacher or act as two strangers meeting in a bar and seduce each other. I also like to be in a role of a step sister bugging a step brother or a niece that needs attention from a dad’s friend or an uncle. I very much like to be molested by a gym trainer. I think it’s quite hot to get fucked in the gym studio in the audio or changing room. I have a whip, handcuffs, blindfold and a choker for mild bondage games but I tend to stay away from any extreme BDSM acts. I am bi-curious; although I will never go down on a woman, I feel comfortable kissing one.

3.  What kind of men can turn you on? ( considering his appearance, his dress sense, his personalities, his body smell, his actions, etc)

I like a man that wears Armani cologne; I cannot remember exactly what it is called but it is so irresistible. I love it when a man can cook well and also behaves like a gentleman that offers help and protection when we walk side by side or when we sit down to eat. I like a man who is touchy and feely but at the same time look into my eyes when talking to me. At least he should look like he is interested in me and I am all what he sees at that moment. I fancy accidental touch here and there. I want my man to be clean shaven down there although he can have a beard or some stubble. Men with some facial hair feel wonderful when they go down on me. Appearance actually does not matter much since it can get me as far as into his bed but what he does in bed can make me want to go back or not.

4.  What are your erogenous zones? ( If you don’t know, have a full Sheila’s Approach massage to find out)

This I know quite well. The side of my boobs, my nipples, my inner thighs and my ears. Maybe there are other zones that I don’t know and I hope I can find out with your massage.

5.  Do you have a high sex drive? How often do you masturbate? 

I have insatiable lust for touch and being intimate with different men. I believe I have a high sex drive but I hide it quite well and I don’t have the need to satisfy it. I am a woman; I know how to direct my sexual energy into other activities or dissipate it. In the worst scenario, I can always masturbate. Speaking of which, I do it maybe every other day and sometimes 3 times in a row. Women are lucky to be able to climax many times without break, and none of it is less powerful than the previous one.

6.  What are your sexual experiences?

I like public indecency and I have done it a few times at CGV cinema. It excites me with the thought that I might get caught and I might have audiences. We had sex on the staircase looking down the street and looking around at other apartments in the complex. I would wear a low cut or a loose top or a top with an open back so that the guy could undo my bras in the cinema and kiss my breasts and suck on my nipples. I did it on a rooftop of HATB. I also had sex on different balconies many times. I unzipped a guy’s pants at the Skewers when we had a table near the stair. I remember going to the toilet to take off my panties after arriving at the restaurant and giving them to the guy. I also went to Noir and sat on the lap of my date; I reached up under the table and touched his dick. This was a few years back when Noir was just open. I have had a few one-night-stands when I was heart-broken. I have had sex with these nationalities: American, Italian, Canadian, French, Australian, Irish, Icelander. I haven’t been with any black man or Asian yet.

7.  Do you like touching and being touched?

Absolutely. I am a passionate woman. I like touching my date and it must be reciprocal. One of my ex used to touch me at the beginning of the movie; by the time we were half way into it, I was extremely wet and ready. That’s why we rarely finished a movie together. 

8.  How important is foreplay to you?

  For me, sex is not about orgasm since I don’t need a man to achieve it. Sex is about togetherness, connection, playfulness and foreplay for each other. So foreplay is extremely important. I like quality sex. I want to look forward to it and just think about it, I am already wet, but usually guys don’t understand it. They just go straight for the pussy and the breasts. We have the whole body and there is so much they can do to our body than just those two areas. I never see a guy a second time if he doesn’t know how to give a massage or touch me well. 

9.  What is your attitude to sex? ( Is it a must in your daily life or is it a chore?) Do you enjoy it as much as your partner? 

I like sex especially the process that leads to it. It shouldn’t be a chore. If it’s a chore, I’d rather not do it. I enjoy sex as much as any man does but men can have a quickie; for me, I need time to work up my appetite, so long, slow, passionate sex with a lot of kissing, touching, sucking, playing around, wrestling is kinda hard to get these days.

10.  Have you ever had any professional sexual massage or an erotic massage done by a man or a woman?

I have had quite a few massages. As for erotic massages, there has been only three so far. The very first one was given by my Australian ex; he initiated my love for massages. He changed my mind about him by bringing out the best sexual me. He showed me that I was wild, full of sexual energy and sensuality. He created what is called conditional reflex in the first massage; since then every time I met him, I wanted to go back to his apartment just to be naked and let him have his ways with me. It was so intense that when I sat next to him in public, with his hand on my arm or when I sat behind him on a bike, I was on heat. He made me believe in chemistry and that it could be hidden and manipulated by circumstances to have it emerge. The second massage, also the best foreplay I have received so far was performed by a British man. He built up the libido in me and turned me into a giant sex organ. Every touch of his was purely pleasure that sent my body into vibration. The third massage was given by another Australian, a farmer who finished a one year massage course in university. He told me that he would give me a therapeutic massage. He was true to his word for a good 50 minutes then he massaged my upper chest. I started to get so wet that my pussy screamed out for his dick. It was a mini pool of juice and no man in their right mind would pass up such an opportunity. He didn’t and I had one of the best sex of my life. 

11.  Do you have any injuries or allergies ?

I have a fair share of motorbike accidents; as a result, I have varicose veins and some knee problems once in a while. Other than that I am pretty fit.

12.  What part of your body are you proud of? Are there any parts on your body that you don’t wish to be touched? 

  I like my boobs. Most men say they are perky and big for Asians. I also have round fleshy butt and curvaceous body. My lower lip is full and kissable. I am what people call voluptuous and I am happy with whom I am.
  As for preferences, I don’t like my anus to be touched or kissed in anyway. 

13.  How liberal are you in terms of sex? ( Do you have sex on the first date? Is one night stand or being friends for benefits a possibility?)

  I am quite liberal for an Asian. I have done all of the above but I dislike men approaching sex on the first date. I don’t like direct men that just go straight for sex. My impression is that they are quite selfish; they haven’t tried to get to know me a little let alone pleasing me in bed. Men are sexy when they don’t talk about sex but they do everything in their best to make it happen. I am a sophisticated woman, so I like to be courted a little, be flirted with and treated well before being taken to bed. 

14.  What’s your favourite sex position?

        I like to be on top because I can control the angle. I also like spooning positions where men can go very deep inside. Scissors are also great since my clitoris can get involved as well. I didn’t understand why lots of men like doggie style; it was always uncomfortable for me until I learned a secret of how to make it enjoyable for me. Now it’s one of my favourite positions. Reverse cow girls are also good to keep my pussy wet. I think the key to great sex positions is to let the woman choose one since it’s harder for a woman to enjoy a new position than man. She needs to figure out if, when and how a position works for her. 

15.  Do you have any trouble climaxing? What is your favourite between vaginal orgasm and clitoral orgasm?

I cannot climax with intercourse alone, and it’s something I am working on. I used not to have an orgasm at all; then one of my ex bought me a massager to relieve pain on my sprained ankle and he started to use it on my clitoris. I enjoyed the feeling but I would stop before it got to the best part since at that time it was unbearable for me. Over the years, I have learned to masturbate with it and reach a climax. I have also managed to cum with a guy inside me while using the vibrator or climax twice with clitoral stimulation first then vaginal stimulation later. I don’t know about other women, I prefer the former since it’s easier and more powerful for me. 

16.  Is there anything you would like to change or improve about your sex life?

  Just like men, I like to prolong my orgasm by edging myself. The fact that I can climax three or four times in a row without stopping makes me feel quite blessed. However, I know my sexual experiences can be better. I still want to learn how to think to orgasm or learn the squirting technique. Although squirting hasn’t been confirmed whether it’s a thing that only happens to certain women or it’s inherent, it doesn’t hurt to try. 

17.  Are you in relationship of any kind?

  Always single and available. I like the freedom of going out with different guys and enjoy their company. I think I am promiscuous. I believe relationships with one person can kill romance unless you constantly work on it by making each other feel they are desired by others rather than their partners.

18.  Are you under any stress?

Yes from time to time. Who isn’t? I am usually anxious about my weight, my looks and my future.

19 . What’s your nationality? Age? Occupation? (if you don’t mind sharing this)

        I am a Vietnamese professional in education, in my thirties.